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Untethering yourself from your phone....part3

1/6/2018

I know that we have been quiet as the Fall turned into the very cold Winter we have been experiencing. There is a good reason for it I promise! You see we have been untethering ourselves from our mobile phones. It all started when the notifications on my apps were driving me crazy and taking time away from the family just to check an ad (yes Facebook I'm mostly blaming you and your 'would you like to boost your post?' push notifications), You can read more about the start of this project in Untethering Part1,

So now we move on to why my 'Turn off Badges' from Untethering Part2 didn't cut it. Apps these days make it very difficult for you to turn off badge notifications and once I did figure it out, I had many issues with Facebook inadvertently updating and resetting my settings! I decided the time had come to simply say goodbye to my Facebook App.

This doesn't mean I deleted my personal Facebook account, but I have deleted Facebook and some other annoying apps from my phone. I must admit it is a freeing feeling! I am less depressed no longer seeing how many things others I know have accomplished (I am proud of you all, but I don't see the blood sweat and tears you shed to get that perfect Facebook/Instagram worthy picture or completed project 'Brag' post right?). I also don't waste as much brain numbing time scrolling through nonsense ads, reposts or 'interesting' news (otherwise known as click-bait), or funny videos that sucked away precious time spent with my family. I now am more purposeful when I log into Facebook and look at specific family and friends updates and posts. Then I make sure to log out to make the enticement of mind numbing scrolling less accessible! I now log in only once or twice PER WEEK! This is a great improvement over the multiple times PER DAY I used to waste on 'virtual friends'. I do really care about my friends still but I prefer face to face time. BONUS if it's face to face time going for walks or other healthy activities!

So goodbye Facebook App! I will NOT be missing you or your notifications or constant red alert badges. Farewell. Adios. Good riddance!

Disclaimer; I still have my Facebook Pages App to check in on my readers! The push notifications are turned off though so I am not as quick to reply as in the past ;)

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How to untether yourself from your phone.....part 2

11/16/2017

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It has now been a week since I turned off my push notifications. It has been a bit better, but I still see these pesky red 'notification Badges' when I'm on my phone. Turns out there is no real easy way to turn these off.

For iPhone ios users you can go into each app individually and change the notificiation settings. That's a bit time consuming if you have a lot of apps that use Badges.

For android users it looked like going into the Badges app and Force Stopping would work, but that was short lived as the next notification on Facebook I received just reset it (without the ability to disable Badges at all...hmmmmm). So for now I have moved my social media apps to the last screen on my phone because it is the one I flip past and to the least. This should deter me from app checking and clearing those pesky red circles at least for a while. Maybe the next step is deleting *gasp* and removing these time draining apps all together.

iPhone notification settings to turn off Badges

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Untethering.........step 1

11/4/2017

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Well I finally did it. I committed to turning off ALL push notifications from apps on my phone. After following 'Becoming Unbusy' on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/becomingunbusy/) and after starting to read 'Last Child In The Woods' (http://richardlouv.com/books/last-child/) I realised that technology takes up too much of my time these days (probably one reason I haven't found time to schedule new content or links on Facebook lately). This is only step 1 of a three step process to untethering myself from my phone.

I embark on this journey with trepidation because blogging means keeping up with things and people right? Well not to worry my dear friends as I will still check in, it just may not be as often or as quickly 'at the drop of a hat' so to speak. I'm also heading on a vacation on which I don't want to be tied to my phone so I figure now is as good a time as any to try this first step out in becoming less tethered. Wish me luck!

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Sandpit part 6.....IT's ALIVE!!

10/27/2017

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Ok so it's not really alive, but it is complete! Hooray!!!

After only 2 years and 3 months, this pit is finally a sculptured piece of the backyard. It took a lot of sweat, tears, frustration, planning, re-planning, and brute strength (man sand bags are HEAVY!), but I can finally call it quits.

So after all of this time following the stories of the sandpit you must be curious what it actually took to finally build this finished beauty.

Here goes;

10 pieces of 1x6"x8' knotty cedar fence boards
3 pieces of 2x4"x8' cedar boards
6 pieces of 4x4"x8' cedar posts
2 x 10" metal spikes
4 x metal brackets (to connect the 4x4s together on the ground)
1 box of deck screws (I think they were 8x1 and 5/8")
10 bags of brick sand (WAY cheaper than play sand and not as dusty/airborne)
2 bags of pea gravel
3 bags of river rock (1.5"-2" size)
3 bags of white decorative rocks
6 bags of cedar 'playground' mulch (it is a bit thicker and not as shredded as gardening mulch, meant to take a fall/ impact better for kids)
25' of landscaping tarp (give or take, we started with a 20' strip but needed to buy more)

Total cost? I honestly can't remember because I lost all of the receipts! (I gathered supplies from 3 different stores because I'd buy what they had, then move to the next one). I know the materials to fill the pit with the sand, gravel, mulch, and stones in total cost about $200 CDN. Spikes and landscaping tarp I have no clue (thanks grandpa!). The wood was a few hundred dollars worth and I did get the store to cut them all in half (so essentially all of the wood I used was already cut into 4' lengths). I guess close to $800 CND? (plus cost to have that stump removed).

The first question I'll answer is why use cedar? Well I wanted something that was a natural bug and pest deterrent, plus I am still cautious on how safe the new 'safe' pressure treated woods are especially since the kids will be playing in this pit a lot.

The second question I'll answer is why did you use 4x4 fence posts to edge the pit? Well, because cedar railway ties and landscaping ties aren't really readily available in our area (special order apparently) and I didn't want to wait anymore, plus the squared edges really frame it nicely.

The third and final question I'll answer is why did you make it cost so much? Why not dump some stuff just in it and be done with it? Well I do like eye pleasing landscaping and I wanted an edge to actual try to contain the stuff I was dumping into the pit. Besides, now I can pull my muskoka chair over to the sand and close my eyes next summer and pretend I'm on a beach!

So now you must be asking, how did we build it?

Let's start with the flower box that I built myself;

this took 1 of the 2x4s and 5 fence boards, a strip of landscaping tarp (probably where we fell short for the actual pit and needed to run to the store again)
it is built as a simple box three fence boards high (measuring the 2x4 to their height and cutting them to attach along each end and in the centre of the boards for stability)
cut the depth of the box however you like, we used 2' (so the garden box itself is 18" high, 2' deep and 4' wide).
I made sure the ground I was placing it on was dug down a few inches so once filled (with dirt from the pit as we needed to empty it a bit more hahaha) it wouldn't move
Plants added, some mulch and then I made a 'shelf' with one of the remaining 4' lengths of fence boards (the shelf was TOTALLY necessary as it is now the 'kitchen')

The next thing I did was call grandpa for help. I needed his experience (and his saw). Then we set about spacing and angling the fence posts around the pit (because I didn't really want to cut them again and was okay with it being asymmetrical).

cut the grass/dirt out of the pit to align with where we wanted the posts to be (as we buried ours in the ground to be flush with the grass to make it easier to cut grass later on around the whole thing....the less weed whacking the better!)
mitre cut the ends of the fence posts so that they sit flush with each join (against the garden box, against each other, and against our added stump table)
joined the fence posts together with the metal brackets
ensured the pit was dug deep enough to fill (about 10-12", with the edges where the fence posts will lie only about 4" deep) and lined the pit with landscaping tarp (overlapping the outside edge of grass as you want it to lie underneath the fence post edging)
Flipped the fence post edging over top of the landscaping tarp and decided where we wanted to place our fill (we added pea gravel first, then the sand)
Between the different materials you can place a plastic or temporary edging to keep them from spilling over into each other (we did) but to be honest by the time the kids attack the pit it'll start to get mixed together quite quickly anyway haha
Once we had everything in place and stomped it down a bit, we drilled holes in one end of each side of the fence post edging and then hammered the spikes into the ground/fill to help keep the frame in place
I then built a rudimentary cover for the sand out of the remaining fence boards and 2x4s (it could use some work, but it does the trick until I feel like doing a better job next year)

Would I do anything differently? A pirate ship would still be pretty cool (see Sandpit part 3), but only time will tell as it hasn't been through it's first winter yet! I do know one thing though I would definitely have had that stump and root system removed professionally right away from the get go.....sooooo much wasted back breaking time!

If you want to read the rest of this series;
Sandpit part 1
Sandpit part 2
Sandpit part 3
Sandpit part 4
Sandpit part 5

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